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The World Through Different Senses: How Sensory Sensitivities Influence Children's Behaviour and Emotions

Updated: Jan 18



In this article, the latest instalment of our series exploring the complex factors that influence a child's behaviour (following our discussions on communication difficulties and emotions), we turn our attention to the role of sensory sensitivities. We will examine how these sensitivities can significantly affect a child's emotional state and behavioural responses, shaping their interactions with the world around them.


What Are Sensory Sensitivities?


Sensory sensitivities refer to the unique ways children perceive and react to their sensory environment, which can involve any of the five senses - sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell - as well as proprioception (awareness of body position) and vestibular senses (balance and movement).

Sensory sensitivities refer to the unique ways children perceive and react to their sensory environment, which can involve any of the five senses - sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell - as well as proprioception (awareness of body position), vestibular senses (balance and movement) and interoceptive sensitivity (the ability to perceive and interpret internal bodily signals). These variations can influence how someone experiences everyday situations, leading to heightened or diminished responses to sensory stimuli. For instance, a child might be overwhelmed by the hum of a fluorescent light or deeply disturbed by a specific texture of clothing. While all children may exhibit some degree of sensory sensitivity, those with special needs - such as autism spectrum disorder (ASD), attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), and sensory processing disorder (SPD) - often experience these sensitivities more intensely and in more complex ways. Understanding sensory sensitivities is crucial in interpreting and responding to your child's behaviour and emotional experiences. There are two primary ways in which sensory sensitivities manifest:


1. Hyper-sensitivity (Over-responsiveness): this occurs when a child has an exaggerated response to sensory stimuli. For example, a child may become distressed or anxious in crowded environments due to loud noises or bright lights. They might avoid certain textures or tastes that others find pleasant. This heightened awareness can lead to challenges in social situations, academic settings, and daily routines. Children with hypersensitivity may:

  • React strongly to loud noises, bright lights, or certain textures

  • Have difficulty focusing in overstimulating environments

  • Exhibit picky eating habits or gag on certain food textures

  • Resist hugs or sudden touches

  • Display heightened emotional responses and behavioural problems


2. Hypo-sensitivity (Under-responsiveness): on the other hand, hypo-sensitivity involves a diminished response to sensory input. A child who is hypo-sensitive might seek out intense sensory experiences, such as spinning, jumping, or touching everything within reach. They may not react to pain as a typical child would, leading to potential safety concerns.

Children with hyposensitivity often:

  • Seek intense sensory experiences, appearing hyperactive

  • Have a high pain tolerance

  • Crave fast, spinning, or intense movements

  • Enjoy deep pressure and tight hugs

  • Struggle with personal space boundaries

  • Not react to extreme temperatures


The Causes of Sensory Sensitivities

Sensory sensitivities can arise from a complex interplay of various factors, with neurological conditions being a prominent contributor. For instance, individuals with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) often experience heightened or diminished responses to sensory stimuli, which can manifest as discomfort in response to certain sounds, lights, textures, or smells. Similarly, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) and Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD) are conditions that frequently include sensory sensitivities as a characteristic feature, affecting how individuals perceive and respond to their environment. Developmental factors also play a significant role; while some children may naturally outgrow certain sensory sensitivities as they mature and their neurological systems develop, others may find these sensitivities persist into adulthood, impacting their daily lives and interactions. Additionally, environmental influences can significantly exacerbate sensory sensitivities. Stressful or chaotic environments - such as crowded places, loud noises, or unpredictable routines - can overwhelm children, intensifying their discomfort and leading to heightened reactions. This intricate relationship between neurological, developmental, and environmental factors underscores the importance of understanding sensory sensitivities in order to provide appropriate support and interventions for those affected.


How Sensory Sensitivities Affect Behaviour

Sensory processing difficulties can have a profound impact on children, significantly affecting their ability to engage in everyday activities, socialise, and succeed academically. For instance, children with sensory sensitivities often find it challenging to participate in group activities or play with their peers, which can lead to social isolation and impede their ability to form meaningful friendships. In educational environments, these sensitivities can further hinder focus and concentration; a child overwhelmed by noise or visual distractions may struggle to stay attentive to learning tasks, ultimately affecting their academic performance. Additionally, self-care routines can become daunting challenges for these children. Hyper-sensitivity may make activities such as bathing, dressing, or eating particularly difficult, while hypo-sensitivity might result in neglecting personal hygiene or safety. Overall, sensory processing difficulties can create significant barriers to a child's well-being and development. Children with heightened sensitivities may experience:


  • Avoidance: children with hypersensitivity often navigate their environments with heightened awareness and discomfort, leading them to actively avoid situations that may overwhelm their senses. For instance, a child may refuse to wear certain clothing, particularly those made from itchy or scratchy fabrics, as the sensation can be intolerable and cause significant distress. This aversion can extend to crowded places, where the combination of loud noises and a bustling atmosphere can feel chaotic and unmanageable. In a busy classroom, the sounds of chatter, the rustling of papers, and the clattering of chairs may create a sensory overload that prompts the child to withdraw or exhibit anxiety. Such avoidance behaviours are not mere preferences; they are coping mechanisms that reflect the child’s need to find comfort in an often overwhelming world;

  • Anxiety and Stress: anxiety and stress are often exacerbated in environments filled with overwhelming stimuli, which can significantly impact a child's ability to concentrate and engage in social interactions. These environments can include crowded public spaces, or even chaotic home settings where noise, visual distractions, and social demands collide. Moreover, the inability to concentrate can create a vicious cycle. When someone struggles to focus due to anxiety and stress, their work or social interactions may suffer, leading to feelings of inadequacy or frustration. This, in turn, can amplify their anxiety, creating a feedback loop that exacerbates the initial issue, further hindering their ability to function effectively in social or professional settings;

  • Meltdowns or Shutdowns: when sensory input becomes too much to handle, a child response can manifest in two distinct ways: meltdowns or shutdowns. A meltdown is typically characterised by intense emotional outbursts, which may include crying, screaming, or even aggressive behaviours. This reaction often occurs when the child feels unable to cope with the intensity of their surroundings - such as loud noises, bright lights, or crowded spaces - leading to a loss of control over their emotions and actions. In contrast, a shutdown involves the child retreating inward, effectively withdrawing from the environment and becoming unresponsive. During a shutdown, the child may appear disconnected, as they attempt to shield themselves from the overwhelming sensory stimuli. Both responses are valid and reflect the child’s struggle to process sensory information; however, they indicate different coping mechanisms;

  • Social Challenges: sensory sensitivities can significantly complicate social interactions for children. For example, a child who experiences discomfort or anxiety in loud environments may shy away from group activities such as birthday parties, school assemblies, or playdates. This avoidance behaviour, while a coping mechanism to manage overwhelming stimuli, can inadvertently lead to feelings of isolation and loneliness. As these children miss out on shared experiences and social bonding opportunities, they may struggle to form connections with their peers, which can further exacerbate their sense of alienation. The inability to participate in group activities not only limits their social skills development but also impacts their self-esteem, as they may perceive themselves as different or less capable of engaging with others. This cycle can create a barrier to forming friendships, leaving them feeling misunderstood and disconnected in social environments that are often designed to be inclusive and fun;


Conversely, children with hypo-sensitivities may:

  • Engage in Seeking Behaviours: this drive for stimulation can manifest in a variety of ways, often leading children to engage in risky or extreme activities without fully recognising their physical limits. For instance, a child might leap off furniture with the hope of experiencing the thrilling rush of adrenaline, unaware of the potential dangers that accompany such actions. Similarly, spinning uncontrollably can provide a sensation of exhilaration and balance that they find deeply satisfying, even if it risks disorientation or falls. Chewing on non-food items, such as toys or clothing, is a common form of sensory seeking, as the texture and resistance fulfil tactile cravings (if you want to learn more about this issue, you can read our article on Pica);

  • Struggle with Self-Regulation: their diminished sensory awareness can lead to difficulties in interpreting social cues. These children often have a reduced response to sensory stimuli, which can manifest as a lack of awareness of their own body and environment. For instance, they might not notice when someone is speaking directly to them or may fail to pick up on non-verbal signals, such as facial expressions or tone of voice. This disconnect can result in misunderstandings with peers, who may perceive their indifference as disinterest or rudeness. Additionally, hypo-sensitive children might engage in behaviour that is perceived as inappropriate or out of context, as they may not fully grasp the social norms that dictate how to respond to various situations. Consequently, these challenges can hinder their ability to form and maintain friendships, leading to feelings of isolation or frustration.


Since sensory sensitivities significantly shape how children navigate their worlds, it is essential to address these challenges to enhance their overall development and quality of life. Below, we will explore effective strategies to support children experiencing sensory processing issues.


Effective Strategies for Supporting Sensory Sensitivities

Supporting sensory-sensitive children requires a thoughtful and individualised approach. Here are several strategies, along with examples, to help you create a supportive environment that accommodates your child's unique sensory needs:

  1. Create a Sensory-Friendly Environment: this can be achieved through thoughtful adjustments to the physical space that cater to the specific sensory needs of your child. For instance, using soft lighting - such as lamps with dimmable features - can create a calming atmosphere that reduces visual stress. Minimising noise is equally important; incorporating sound-absorbing materials like carpets, curtains, rugs can help dampen disruptive sounds, creating a more tranquil space. Comfortable seating options, like bean bags, floor cushions, or even hammocks, provide not only physical comfort but also a sense of security and containment. For example, a designated quiet corner filled with soft toys, blankets, and calming visuals can serve as a retreat for children feeling overwhelmed, allowing them to self-soothe and regain composure. This safe space can be further enhanced with elements like weighted blankets or fidget tools that promote relaxation and focus;

  2. Establish Routines: establishing predictable routines is crucial in fostering a sense of security and stability for children, particularly those who may be sensitive to sensory experiences or transitions. Children often find comfort in knowing what to expect, and a well-structured routine can significantly reduce anxiety and sensory overload. For instance, implementing a visual schedule that outlines daily activities using pictures and symbols can be immensely beneficial. This visual representation allows children to anticipate upcoming events and transitions, which can alleviate feelings of uncertainty and help them mentally prepare for what lies ahead. When children understand their environment and what is expected of them throughout the day, they are more likely to respond positively to new challenges and sensory stimuli;

  3. Sensory Tools and Breaks: sensory tools and breaks play a crucial role in supporting children's emotional and physical well-being, especially in environments that may be overwhelming or stressful. Providing sensory tools such as fidget toys, weighted blankets, and sensory bins filled with materials like rice or kinetic sand offers children a way to channel their energy and self-soothe. Fidget toys, for instance, can help improve focus and concentration by allowing the hands to engage in soothing movements, while weighted blankets provide a sense of security and calmness through deep pressure. Incorporating regular sensory breaks throughout the day is equally important, as these intervals allow children to step away from demanding tasks and engage in calming activities that promote emotional regulation. Activities such as deep pressure techniques - where children might squeeze a stress ball or play dough or are given a sensory massage - help to ground them and reduce anxiety. Most of the tools and activities mentioned above can be used and practiced daily at home or in school. Don't hesitate to talk to your class teacher about the possibility of introducing these tools and activities if you think your child can benefit from them;

  4. Sensory diet: sensory diet is a specific type of strategy designed to help children with sensory sensitivities manage their sensory needs throughout the day. It involves a variety of activities that provide the right amount of sensory input to help regulate a child’s sensory system. These can include:

    - Proprioceptive Activities: these involve deep pressure or actions like pushing or pulling weighted objects, jumping, or climbing, which can help with body awareness and self-regulation;

    - Vestibular Activities: these involve movement and balance, such as swinging, spinning, or rocking, which can help with coordination and spatial awareness;

    - Tactile Activities: these involve different textures and materials, like play dough, sand, or water play, to help children explore their sense of touch;

    - Oral Motor Activities: simple guided exercises, such as blowing up a balloon or making silly faces, can help regulate oral sensory input;

    - Visual and Auditory Activities: these may include using calming visuals or listening to soft music to help manage sensory overload;

    A sensory diet is often an essential component of a child with special needs’ school routine, as it is designed to help them transition smoothly into the school day. These sensory activities can be integrated throughout the day as needed, promoting comfort and focus. If you think your child could benefit from a sensory diet, consider discussing this with their teacher or other support professionals. A personalised sensory diet tailored to your child’s unique needs can become an essential part of their daily routine, positively influencing their behaviour and emotional well-being;

  5. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: teaching children mindfulness and relaxation techniques can be an effective way to help them manage overwhelming sensory input. By introducing practices such as deep breathing, guided imagery, or simple meditation, children can learn to center themselves and regain control in overstimulating environments. For instance, deep breathing exercises can be framed as "balloon breathing," where children imagine inflating and deflating a balloon with their breath, helping them to focus and calm their minds. Similarly, guided imagery can transport them to a peaceful place, allowing them to visualise calming scenarios that promote relaxation. Incorporating mindfulness activities, such as mindful walking or sensory awareness exercises, encourages children to engage with their surroundings, fostering resilience and emotional regulation;

  6. Teaching Self-Advocacy and Coping Skills: one effective approach is to work with children to help them identify their individual sensory preferences and triggers. This can be done through engaging discussions and activities that allow them to explore different sensory experiences, such as textures, sounds, and lights. In these exercises, children can practice expressing their needs in a safe and supportive environment. For instance, they might take turns acting out situations where they feel overwhelmed and need to ask for a break or use a calming tool, such as noise-canceling headphones or a stress ball. This not only empowers them to gain confidence in articulating their feelings and taking control of their experiences, but it also fosters their ability to advocate for themselves when they encounter sensory overload in everyday situations.


In conclusion, sensory sensitivities present unique challenges for children, particularly those with special needs. The complexities of sensory processing - whether through hyper-sensitivity, where a child may be overly responsive to sensory stimuli, or hypo-sensitivity, where a child may underreact to sensory input - require tailored approaches that address each child's unique sensory profile. To effectively understand a child's sensory profile, caregivers and educators must engage in careful observation and assessment. This involves closely monitoring how a child responds to various sensory inputs, such as sounds, textures, lights, and smells, as well as noting their preferences for certain activities. By recognising specific triggers and preferences, caregivers can begin to form a comprehensive picture of the child's sensory needs. Once these sensory needs are identified, tailored strategies can be implemented to create a supportive environment that helps children navigate their world more comfortably. Ultimately, the goal of understanding and addressing sensory sensitivities is to cultivate environments where these children can thrive, engage, and reach their fullest potential.

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